đź’°You need to find better friends

Dec 07, 2025

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Hi there,

 

There’s one truth I learned the hard way:
Your life can change the moment your circle does.

I’m not telling you to cut off your friends.
But I am saying this: if you want to build a different kind of life, you need people around you who can pull you upward, not keep you stuck.


In college, I know I didn’t reach my full potential. Sure, I was hustling hard, but I was always the one teaching, advising, motivating… and meanwhile, I wasn’t growing at all.
Why? Because you can’t level up if you’re always the smartest, hardest-working, or most ambitious person in every room.

After college, something unexpected happened.
I drifted away from that group of friends — the ones who didn’t really want growth, who preferred comfort over change, who felt threatened by ambition. 

And honestly? Being alone for a while turned out to be the best thing for me.
No drama. No distractions. No subtle jealousy. Just focus.

I grew faster in that season than I ever had before.

 

And once I created that space, I attracted completely different people. Friends who were building businesses, traveling the world, setting big goals, and actually following through.

People who challenged me. People I could learn from. People who became mentors without even trying.

Those relationships helped me make millions… because they helped me think bigger, act smarter, and believe I could build more.

 

If I had stayed in my old circle, I wouldn’t be where I am now. Not even close.

So no, you don’t need to ditch your friends. But you do need to find better ones.
The kind who inspire you, support you… and don’t shrink when you start to rise.

 

Because here’s the truth:
You become the average of the people you spend time with.

Choose wisely, and you’ll grow.  

 

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